An old wise
man was very rich and he had many children.
When he was about to die, he asked all his
children to gather beside his death bed.
Near him there were a number of arrows tied
up in a bundle. When the children came, the
old man asked the oldest and the strongest
to pick up a single arrow and try to break
it. The son took one arrow as ordered and
did break it quite easily. The old man then
asked him to increase the number to two
arrows and try to break them. The son did
break the two arrows, but with a little
extra effort. Each time the father kept
asking the son to increase the number and
each time it became more difficult for the
son to break them. The exercise continued
until there was a point at which the arrows
had formed a bundle and thus became
impossible for the son to break…
This week’s
Parasha is without any doubt one of the most
significant Parshiot of the Torah. Do you
know why? Because it contains the Revelation
of the Ten Commandments to the People of
Israel, the base of Jewish and universal
ethics. But what really gets my attention
here, is the fact that the Jews were worthy
of receiving the Ten Commandments. Being
honest, what merit did they have to deserve
such an honour?
Let us remember
a little bit: the Jews left Egypt two
Parshiot ago. They witnessed the glory of
God in the plagues He sent to the Egyptians,
in the miraculous crossing of the Red Sea,
in the manna they ate in the desert and in
the water that emanated from the rock. And
their only reaction to that was to be
ungrateful and to rebel against Moshe and
against God! What kind of merit did they
earn to receive the Commandments from God?
This is a very
old question and the Rabbis have looked for
its answer. Some Rabbis remind us of the
Midrash where the Jews accepted the Torah
without asking, while other people put
conditions on its acceptance. But there are
others who maintain that the important merit
for which they received these Commandments
is in the verse that says: “vaiachanu ba
midbar vaichan sham Israel
negued ha ar”—“they encamped in the
wilderness; and there Israel
encamped before the mount.” (Ex. 19:2).
And if you read the Hebrew, the second time
the verse mentions “encamped”, it is written
in the singular form. This teaches us that,
for the very first time, the People of
Israel manifested unity. They were like a
single family in front of Mount Sinai, and
although we all know that the next episodes
weren’t so happy, the merit was having at
least a few days in total unity, which made
them worthy of the honour of receiving the
Ten Commandments.
Can we realize
how important unity is? We all know how
fundamental it is for the survival of our
people. But, unfortunately, there were only
a few times when real unity was present in
our history.
In general, we
are more or less together when we are
afraid, when there is danger from outside.
But when there is no threat from outside, we
are not united. We are separated by
kehilot (congregations), by ideologies,
by origins, and sometimes this is enough
reason to disqualify other Jews and build a
“wall” to separate “them” from “us”. It
seems that we always put the emphasis on
showing our differences instead of
highlighting what unites us. Perhaps for
this reason God gives us this wonderful
lesson which shows the true importance of
unity.
Although some
people believe the merit to receive the
Torah was its acceptance without question, I
prefer to believe that they received it
because of the fact that they were together
as a strong, free nation.
…The old man
then turned to the rest of his children and
reminded them of the importance of being
united among themselves. As individuals,
similar to those single arrows, they can
easily be broken and taken advantage of by
anybody, while if they stand together as the
bundle of arrows, then there is no power on
earth that can break them.
Shabbat Shalom.