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By Mildred Devins, Adult Leisure Chairperson Published in the Shaarey Zedek Shofar in April 2003
Many of us remember the wonderful events that took place in our Synagogue many years ago. Times change and some of the projects that were so successful at another time are no longer in vogue. However, the warmth of the Synagogue remains intact. Other programs, equally as exciting, have taken their place. I am remembering the “Golden Days” because I came across a speech, or rather a toast to our daughters, that was written and delivered by my mother, Betty Mishkin, at a Sisterhood mother and daughter luncheon. I decided to share it with you because I think it still speaks to mothers of every generation.
Madam Chairman, Honoured and Respected Grandmothers, Mothers and Daughters:
As I look upon this wonderful gathering of beautiful daughters, their lovely and charming mothers and grandmothers, all wearing their pretty new hats, it really seems like a simcha.
What truly gives a mother joy is the happiness of her daughter – from her baby days – school days – and that magical romantic age of “13 going on 19”. The first lipstick – the first date – the high honours at school. BUT MOTHER! You just don’t understand! Things are different nowadays!
Then, before you know it, you are out of high school and at University and all the thrills and excitement of your first formal, the feeling of being grown up at last!! The tense days of exams, which are closely watched by mom, who fondly dreams of the day when her young daughter will graduate as a doctor, lawyer, architect or at least something.
Suddenly mother finds herself in a whirl of wedding plans. Never do a mother and her daughter feel as close as then.
As time goes on to make a happy ending, grandchildren are born and a bond between mother and daughter deepens even more and reaches a fine maturity of understanding.
To the young daughters of our Synagogue, the beauty and tradition of our faith takes on a richer and deeper significance as they see the devotion and love with which their mothers observe it. It is truly a banner and a shield with which they can face the world.
In closing, may I just add a word about the warm feeling we all have for our Sisterhood family. We follow their achievements with pride. Their Girl Guide awards, Bat-Mitzvahs, Confirmation and their doings at the JYO – all these activities interest us.
And now, may I ask the mothers to rise and drink a toast to our beloved daughters. May they continue to be a source of pride and joy to us, always! |
